MIDE VICTORY

From Adekunle's Gold "Ready" music back in April, 2016, a lot guys and ladies love to sing the song but there's more to saying you're really ready to take your partner on and say "I do".     A lot around us can make you want to just get married, Bella Naija pictures, Facebook feeds can be so beautiful and adorable, awww a lot ladies melts seeing these pictures, couple of my friends bore me with "wow, see this couple" Jezz, but I must confess many of the groom's tuxedo makes my body hair stands. Seeing these things and loving them doesn't make you ready, there is a difference between planning a wedding and planning a marriage. A lot of things needs to be considered before marrying your partner, ask yourself, am I willing to look outside myself and put someone  else's concern on par with mine? like myself for instance, I use to be very selfish that I hated the idea of carrying someones issues on with mine, I remember telling c...

HE/SHE IS NOT THE ONE . Many people enter relationship based on their “Emotional Obsession” . This is not bad but it covers your eyes and enslaves your brain to see and know the worst characters of your partner, at times, the eyes sees it or even the ear hears about it but the brain working under Obsessed emotions paralyses the senses to think, not for now but also for the future. Emotional Obsession diminishes with time and at these times, a lot issues arises in the relationship and a lot worst attitudes can no longer be dealt with. A writer once wrote that “Love is strong as Death”, Emotional Obsession is what He meant.  Mind you, when planning to be in working relationship you need to build your own partner, only you know what you want and what is best for you. You loving shouldn't be for death but rather to make living worthwhile. This article is written to point out some of the signs you see when he/she is not the one . He/she seems very secretive that desp...